In this world of ours, I think an important thing to remember is that our life is accountable to God and God alone. The people that we become and the things we do should be based on our relationship with God. We are only responsible for our own actions, and we need to make sure our heart is right.
I think it is a good thing to keep in mind daily that what others may think about a decision or choice we make does not matter. Other’s opinion of us should not influence our choice. What God thinks is what should determine the direction we take.
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Reading the Bible, studying teachings, and praying are different ways to know what God wants from us. Sometimes seeking Godly counsel is the path we need to follow to help us along the way.
For those of us with children, it is easy for us to slip into thinking that if our children’s decisions or choices are not the ones that we would make, that it is a reflection of us. We need to realize our children become responsible for themselves as they mature. We try our best to lay the best foundation we can, and then it is up to them how they ultimately live their life. Not having that control is hard for many of us. I need to continually remind myself that I tried my best and that the rest is up to the Lord. As a friend once told me, the Lord deals with each of us in our own way in His own time.
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So, remember to base your decisions and live your life by being accountable to God and God alone. And, you are only ultimately responsible for yourself.
But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” –1 Samuel 16:7
It’s hard to let go completely and Let God lead but worth it. Being accountable is something we need to teach the upcoming generations. Many people never “own” their mistakes.
thanks for the reminder
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Marie
This is so true before we can speak into someone else’s life we must make sure we are on the right path. We must take then beam out of our own eye before we take the splinter out of another’s eye.
Hi Christine,
Thank you for your thought provoking post. I’m learning this more and more each day, with our Lord’s help. I only want to do what He asks of me. So thankful He is kind and patient with me.
Thank you for this powerful reminder that we are only accountable to God. We cannot go around trying to please others if our actions are not first pleasing to God above all else.
So often I can get caught up in the fear of man, and what others thing. But knowing I am accountable to God, and to Him alone, should always put me on the right path. Blessings!